Discussions of the day
I've planned a surprise party for her 50th birthday, and it went down well with 50 people attending, and it was at several places - and the big one was where I arranged for a friend she hasn't seen for 25 years, and she was surprised. Let's say it was you planning a surprise party for a friend, family member etc. what kind of party would you plan and what kind of food would you have? I am very keen to hear some ideas and views on this?
DeANG
I have planned a surprise party for my husband's 40th, never in my life attempted to do such a thing, so one day the thought came to my head and I spoke to my mother-in-law and she supported me in my decision, I choose a restaurant in Moonee Ponds. Just had mainly family and a few of my hubbies friends. it was a nice group of about 30 people. I had organized the date/time venue menu /birthday cake . All I told my husband was that on the day we were going out for dinner for his birthday although I didn't want him to see where we were going, I got him into the car. Blindfolded him and held on to his hand and guided him while walking, when I got him inside the venue all the family gathered ready to greet him once i took the blindfold off him he got the biggest and most unexpected shock of his life. My husband could not believe how I could keep such a secret, because I am one who gets exciteded .
Sep 29, 22
Do you think RTA will start to design a better traffic lights working system? When people drive somewhere, it is always a disaster to get out of the suburban area. I think this is because the lights system works in the old way, like it was ten years ago. You probably experienced the situation when you are in the traffic line, and the light is green for only 2-3 seconds. What do you think about it?
Larry S 382961
I have this problem only on weekends. A set of lights run very phase time slow. I have rung the traffic control people and get told. Yes sure is a problem so I will tweak the phase to clear it. Nothing gets done. Even have gone online to report it and nothing done.
Apr 07, 22
I've done all kinds of travel over the years and despite the uncertainty of COVID variants etc, I still have plans and hopes for travel etc for my family and me. e.g a family Missions Trip and other travel... What about you guys?? Also, what ideas methods have you found to be effective for generating funds etc for a major dream/plan?
Leslie D 488751
Only spend what you have to. People buy things that are not needed, so their money disappears before their eyes. There are many ways to save, some better than others, so use your imagination. I had plans to go to Ukraine this year but that has been put on hold for now.
Mar 10, 22
I came up with a thought. Why not have a section where people could write a review of various forms of media such as a film, TV show, book, music album or a video (music, short film, a viral video, etc). For example, people could pick a topic and a title, like a new release movie and write a critical review of it along with a rating out of five stars and if they recommend it or not. This could come under the FORUMS section or GAME COMMENTS...
katpurr
Could we please have more ‘play again’ options, so we don’t have to go back & forth to the list?
Especially with ones like Trivia, because if you go to the list, you get a preview of the question, & I would rather not know the question till I get there.
Feb 26, 22
Have you ever had a melody or the song's lyrics, that just kept playing in your mind, and you wanted it out? Did you find a way to get rid of it, or did you succumb to it's power?
Jude21
I often have 'earworms' like that. Today my son was singing 'Won't you take me to Funky Town' and it is still playing on a loop in my head.lol
Feb 23, 22
I just opened the cupboard and there they were. After removing everything from that shelf (there is always one shelf that they seem drawn to) and getting rid of as many as I could, I clean the shelf, shut the door. 2 minutes later, open the door, and the ones I misses are gathering in a corner, l swear they are laughing at me! So, I put down the borax/sugar mix, which is supposed to kill them, but of course they avoid it. Any Rewardians have better solutions for keeping...
Sylvia Y
I have tried everything and nothing got rid of the little beasties until I discovered Ant-Rid ant baits, they are little white blocks that you can stick to surfaces and the beasties go inside and take the stuff back to their nest - they really work and they are all gone within a couple of days
Jan 12, 22
What is your preference, why and what would it take to get you to change? Years ago my best friend got an iPhone and loved it, so i got one... never looked back, iPhone for life... I wouldn't be able to convert to Samsung now.
Sammi
l had a Samsung which died so my sister gave me her spare lphone which took me 18 months to work out how to use. Every thing l tried to do was not compactable with the lphone, which meant l had to find different ways to get the phone to do what l wanted, very frustrating. l would never buy an lphone, shich is over priced. When this one breaks down l will go back to an Android
Dec 12, 21
Do you still keep in touch with your childhood friends? I used to be inseparable with my best friend from primary school for many years, she was even my maid of honour during my wedding ceremony. And yet, now, over the years our ways have somehow parted. Would you say your experiences are similar?
Mooi
It wasn't until I started work at the age of 15 years that I made a good friend. I was bullied all through school. Then I found a great job where I met my best friend and the people I worked with were fantastic. Then my dad decided we should emigrate to Australia from the UK and I left my friends and my beautiful dog behind. Don't get me wrong I mostly love Australia apart from the Government, I have been married since 1979, four wonderful daughters, four grandchildren and a greyhound who is now my best friend, companion and confidante, she never gossips.
Oct 15, 21
A lucid dream is a dream in which the dreamer is aware that they are dreaming. The numbers vary, but between 51% to 82% of people report experiencing a lucid dream at least once.
Bugalugs
Yes,, often, I am aware I am dreaming but at the same time I wake up and my dream has been so realistic and attached to my life as it is that when I wake up I sometimes have to ask myself "Was I dreaming or was this real?" A bit confusing some times and at other times when I realise I was just dreaming I am very, very grateful!
Aug 22, 21
We seem to be going through another period where very old and antique furniture can be bought for very little...nobody wants it...when I was redoing a bathroom...it was MUCH cheaper for me to buy a solid timber dresser that was over 100 years old..and convert it to being a sink unit...than buy a crappy wood fiber unit from Bunnings ... what the new owner got was something very special ... but something else had to go ... to make it ... maybe in a hundred years time...
Imperia S '' PIER''
gosh Andrew 1, how could you use /convert such a beautiful piece of furniture as a bathroom cupboard, My brother is an antique restorer/french polisher, he works for several dealers and auctioneers to restore this type of furniture and would be crying if he saw and hear what you did to it, that would be worth a fortune, and don't worry I won't tell him LOL, I love antiques
Aug 04, 21
There are guys on Air tasker and other sites who specialise in coming to your home and assembling this stuff....IKEA itself has now opened a service to come around to assemble it for you too...how hard would it be to include a sensible logical instruction list...HELLO SWEDEN...what is going on here?
Paul
An update to my earlier post! Recklessly (Or should that be "Wreck".....) I succumbed to DIY temptation again not long after writing it, after all what harm could another small bookcase do? Duly went online to find a matching one, only available in White now, that's OK, I have no colour bias, perfect harmony with the Black one..... Arrived on my doorstep this morning, great! Cold day, nothing like a bit of DIY on a cold winter's day to get the blood pumping, as long as I don't get any one the carpet. Lifted the box up...TRIED to lift the box up....it slowly dawned on me that this "Thing" was a whole heap bigger & heavier than the other one. Dragged it inside & propped it up against the dining table, where it remains. I'll get onto it tomorrow, maybe, after I've moved the furniture. It wont fit where I'd planned.
My biggest dilemma though is they sent me one worth $50 not the one I paid $20 for, what should I do?!!!!
Jun 29, 21
Does anyone really trust crytocurrencies? I'm not so sure about them. I don't know, maybe, they will be more secure in the future. I've heard that the Dark Web prefers them, which doesn't help their case much, if, at all.
Mattcheeta
Cryptocurrency and regular currency will co-exist in the future.
Cryptocurrency, and owning your own crypto-wallet means you become your own bank. This is both a good thing and a bad thing.
While it is new technology, there are a lot of scammers looking to exploit those that are unfamiliar with it, and there are a lot of new 'cryptocurrencies' which can be used as "ponzi schemes"/Pump and Dumps"/"Rug pulls".
I think this is a great video that actually helps explain the concepts of Cryptography/Cryptocurrency. (I hope im allowed to post this) https://youtu.be/bBC-nXj3Ng4
Moving forward, I believe things like crypto can be very good for the world, and can improve trust in things like Elections, contracts and other legal issues.
But, it still has a long way to come before real world adoption.
Jun 16, 21
My son was in a car accident where he was driving straight on a main road. The second car pulled out of a parking lot in front of him. No one was given a ticket. My insurance company stated that no ticket means both parties were at fault. Is this a true statement?
Morton B
Based on law in NZ you son had right of way, the other car was pulling out onto a carriageway and must give way or stop until way is clear. Drivers can exchange details of Name Address/contact phone number, Registration No and name of Insurance Co. If requested by other driver you must disclose this info and he must reciprocate as required under the Land Transport Act. I would also make a Police report to get it documented if police didnt attend accident esp if he refuses to supply required details. Here getting a ticket is not a requirement for Insurance Company
Jun 07, 21
If you could pick your own name what will it be and why?
OSCAR
I went to school with a boy called Bake Bean because his mother had a craving when she was pregnant and they actually named him that and his brother was named Watties
May 30, 21
My youngest son complained to me about his brother going off to work in Canada "I thought he'd come back with great stories. loads of pictures and stuff that he got there...but he is in contact all the time, I get photos and videos of all he is doing...there isn't going to be anything to talk about when he gets back"....I did all my major travelling and work abroad a long time ago,,,the odd phone call or a postcard that often too longer than you to get back....I travelled for two...
Katzeye
To explore and discover new things,meet new people and make new friends, try new cuisines and indulge in new experiences and learn about other cultures...If we didn't travel life would be boring .I have been to Sydney,Brisbane,Gold Coast,Vanuatu and all around my own country here in NZ from the South Island to the top of the North Island and all going well,I will be heading to Rarotonga later next year for a 60th party.
May 14, 21
Which accents are your favorites to listen to? And, why do you like them? Is it a roll of the tongue or a sharp drop in a word spoken? Let us know! (Oh, and when, I state accents, I mean when someone is speaking the English language, not in their own language[s] )
jan
i love the english from yorkshire and the north of england but you drive from village to village and the accents are differant love them i,m from cornwall so thats didfferant again
Jan 03, 21
Sometimes when I venture out, it really does feel like we are living in an apocalypse. The social distancing. The masks. The fear in people's eyes. The avoidance in people's body language. The eerie feeling in the air freaks me out.
SteveK
If we can get 100% support from all citizens in following government regulations, we can defeat this terrible virus. But it needs 100% NOT 99% or less. The ball is now in our court. The pathway to recovery is there and it is achievable. Stay strong and committed to following all government directives and we will surely win.
Aug 03, 20
Do you think families will be able to get together this year for Easter?
APB
Its funny, when we all discuss Christmas...there are loads of people who get all worked and upset about it being all about Christ, and people have forgotten the true meaning etc.....Yet when we get to Easter ...another Pagan festival that the Christians stole from it's true owners...Everyone is talking about hot cross buns, chocolate eggs and bunnies...I guess the Christians couldn't come up with anything better.....
Feb 14, 21
Not that long ago... I was just browsing around on the internet, and I came across a penfriend-club. I was surprised! I thought penfriend clubs died out due to the popularity of the internet. It's good that they still exist! Have you ever had a penfriend? Do you currently have one that you write to?
Warrior Woman
As a lonely teen in the UK back in the 50s and 60s I had penpals all over the world. We exchanged postcards, stamps, learnt a bit about languages and other cultures. How exciting it was to receive mail from France, Japan, USA, Italy, Norway, Jugoslavia, the Azores etc. I studied languages at School and Uni and hitchhiked around Europe meeting and mixing wonderful people including my future husband. Now Facebook has replaced letter writing and I love hearing from my many International friends every day.
Jan 27, 21
When do children reach the status of having had enough experience of the world to try to tell their parents how to live their lives?
Anneliese
Lessons and learning can go both ways. You teach them things and likewise they can teach you things. Your talking about bossing someone, there should be respect from both sides. Discipline is a different thing, it's like learning what's right and wrong. However gaining experience and learning is something you will always do.
Jan 26, 21
Do you think witchcraft is just hippie-dippy nonsense or the real thing? I'm still unsure. I've read about people who claim to be witches but I've never tried a spell or anything. Have you?
Jacq
A Lot of poor innocent women were wrongly burnt at the stake years ago by ignorant people, sometimes for just helping. I'm open minded.
Dec 02, 20
He s 94 years old. What a living legend. Were you one of the millions of followers that followed him?
Leilani Crystal
Come on all you people saying you’ve never heard of Instagram and so many other things that have been discussed on here. Okay how have you found rewardia site then if you seem to know nothing about technology or the internet?
Dec 19, 20
As this 2020 has been very difficult for most of us, Christmas presents can be a little bit challenging for our pockets. Are you going to buy less and cheaper gifts this year?
Judy CH
Yes, we were defrauded of $53,500 so it is hard enough buying the bare necessities let alone being extravagant, can't even afford to buy and post Christmas cards
Dec 09, 20
Mine usually accumulates in my coat pockets and goes towards a nice bottle of wine. Or I keep it and give it to buskers. How about you?
Warrior Woman
I save up all my change at the end of the week and it goes into a special bank account for my little volunteer school in a very poor Balinese Village for children whose parents cannot afford the Government school fees. I began it as a kindergarten and it has been going now for 8 years, helped by my fundraising and donations from friends. Whenever I go over to take books, clothing, soccer boots etc., my accumulated bank deposits help pay the school bills. It is run by my Balinese friends who take no money themselves so the children can get a basic education. It is amazing how change does make such a difference to children who have nothing, not even a toy of their own. Covid has meant I cannot get over there since January and my tiny school has closed, waiting until I can get back with what I have saved.
Dec 04, 20
Why are people so rude on the roads these days, before people used to give way to other people out of being polite. Now days people don't let anybody in, if you try to change lanes, people speed up so you can't If you park at the supermarket car park, once you have finished your shopping, and want to reverse out of your spot, no-one will stop to let you out, I've even had someone go around me, and I was half way out. What is wrong with people these days?
Neo
What do you mean these days? I have witnessed this behaviour for decades BUT it does seem to get worse over time.
Nov 27, 20
I have just started making changes within my household and the changes are amazing. No more allergies from toxic chemicals. I only wish I had done it sooner.
Maria B 89860
I use vinegar in the washing machine, just lift the cap on the agitator and fill it up at the beginning of the 1st cycle. Clothes come up smelling fresh and of whatever is on the off the shelf ones.
Oct 17, 20
Do you believe healthcare should be free? Or do you think the individual should have to fund it themselves? If so, what are the reasons for your stance?
Disie
Totally agree healthcare should be free worldwide. It would actually cut the cost of medications, surgeries etc. People with no health cover are doomed from the start unless they're on a 5 figure salary
Oct 26, 20
Quarantine, lockdown, international travel doomed. Will the world be able to get festive this year? If so, what will a Covid19 Christmas look like for all of you?
Chosen
Th best present I can have is that they, The NZ Govt, CANCEL ALL IMMIGRATION to NZ till the global virus has gone away.
Nov 10, 20
Why does anybody watch commercial TV in this era? I hate advertisements, I would rather get my teeth pulled out with a pair of pliers.
Phyrephly
....there's always the "off" switch - better expenditure of your energy than using pliers on your pearly whites.
Oct 07, 20
If it saves lives, I don't have a problem with it. I choose humanity over the economy and inconvenience. What are your thoughts?
Judy CH
in risk areas yes, we couldn't get masks for a long time after lock down, if you where glasses they get fogged up
Aug 06, 20
I was looking for a phone number to locate a store. I first tried the Yellow Pages, but it said the number was disconnected. So I went online to find the number on my computer, and instead I was connected to an AI service. It asked me to pay $1, either through my credit card or BPAY, before it would give me the number. The $1 was supposedly refundable, but I refused, as you always hear warnings about giving out bank details online. Even if it is refundable, how...
Daph
my tech savy grandson told me to put my curser on the link it shows and if it is different to the address it says the email is from then do not click it because it is most likely a scam
Sep 29, 25
Our local agricultural show is on this weekend. I like a lot of people are busy baking and cooking things. Also hoping our garden will give us the biggest, best, pumpkin, tomato. Or best Rose, herbs or other goodies. Do others enter their local shows or is everyone getting too busy, and it is only us oldies that are doing it. I am entering: Pumpkins, Tomatoes, Herbs, Silverbeet, Rhubarb, Murat Limes, Roses. Tea Cake, Scones, Date loaf, Nut loaf, uncooked...
bones
We have a lot of shows around us. Gore, Wyndham, Tapanui, Balclutha'
All very popular. Good for people to get together and chat, good catch up time.
Mar 09, 24
Why your dream job will not guarantee happiness? Doing a job you absolutely LOVE can positively influence your everyday mood, but it will not guarantee long-term happiness. Why do you think that is, and what are your thoughts? Does a dream job make you happy?
Bubbles Barber
A dream job is one that you look forward to doing every day of your working life I was lucky to have the job I loved and was good at
Jan 13, 24
As an only child raised by my grandmother, I never felt the strong connection that others feel with brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles and parents. When we immigrated 3 years ago, I did not feel an ounce of worry or longing to go back to my country of birth. I've never felt homesick at all. Is this normal at all? Has anyone else felt the same way?
Gypsy
I was born in UK. My parents chose a different religion to their familes, and most of both families turned against my parents. Because of that rift I grew up knowing who my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins were, but not having a very close bond with them. In 1971 my father announced that we were emigrating to Australia. Before we left UK we were told that there was a house ready for us, and jobs for my father and myself. We arrived in "the land of sunshine" in June on a very wet, cold, windy day, there was also no house or jobs, so we had to live in the Pennington Hostel and look for work. That was the only time I felt homesick. As our circumstances improved we were glad we had come. In 2006 I made my first trip back to UK for a 7 week holiday, but then I was happy to return home to Australia, for me 'home' is where my immediate family are.
Feb 20, 22
I've owned both over the years but I am conflicted on which one to purchase next. I think a Mac may be better for creativity and music. But I'm not sure which one is best overall.
Luna
Always been a PC person, never owned a Mac or any Apple products so couldn't really give input on that.
Sep 04, 20
Today I received notification that my TXT messages are "end-to-end encryption". When I learn more, this mean that noone including Google and third parties can read those messages send it from my phone. So does it mean until today they could? I doubt our text messages from our cell phone are private! I don't understand how anyone else apart from sender and receiver can read it. I am in shock. Did you know that?
Daniel A 2
No supposably nothings private, We've just always got to hope that there's just so much out there, that they wont bother tuching our own, when they don't have the time.
Apr 27, 23
Natural disasters where people lose everything overnight is horrible and so hard to comprehend. If you had one item (excluding people & pets) you could save from your house in a disaster, what would it be?
Fancythecat
I lost everything in a flood twice during my lifetime, luckily i was able to save my pictures, but I lost all my good old time recipes, I miss those the most.
Feb 06, 23
He should stick to rapping. The sad thing is, anyone thinks they can join politics now regardless of whether they have any former experience or training. Today s political world reminds me of the Adam Sandler film, Idiocracy.
Sapphire Princess
as I understand it it was not intended he was going to run. it was a publicity stunt from what I understood.
Aug 30, 20
A wise man said that you start out owning possessions but at some point, those possessions end up owning you....if you had to lose all your personal possessions...and just share everything...what would be the one personal object you would want to keep?
WonkyandProud
Knowing me, it would be something sentimental and totally useless to me! If I was being practical, I would keep my laptop or a telephone. Does this mean we are naked? If so, I'd keep my Eeyore Jammies! LOL
Aug 20, 22
I treasure any gift I am given, except for the time my mother gave me a gift for Christmas, which I had given her the year before for her birthday. Have you ever returned a gift someone gave to you or gifted it on to someone else?
Christine M 323842
Better to regift, swap, or sell. No need to have useless things around. There is plenty of things that I actually need. Always appreciate that someone has been kind enough to think of me though.
Jul 30, 22
Growing up a little boy my Mother had a vast array of cutlery she told me that if I was ever invited to tea with the Queen I'd know what spoon, knife or whatever to use...three full sizes of knives and forks...fruit spoon, soup spoon, desert spoon, jam spoon, cheese knife, steak knife, fish knife...the list went on.... I haven't seen most of these in over 40 years...has anyone else?
Rockchi
If you're hungry who cares how you shovel it in Mind you I still want to know what cutlery is what in case I ever go to a posh restaurant like in the movie Pretty Woman
Jul 07, 22
Some parents don't monitor what there children watch and read, what do you think? cause I think it's proper. Our duty as parents is to monitor the PG rating of what our children watch or read, because sometimes what they watch and read control's there behavior and character. So I am just curious to see what other parents and people think?
Granny Al MI Q
Yes! There is a lot out there that isn’t suitable for different ages and they have difficulty distinguishing fact from fiction
Feb 13, 22
How many people now do their hair at home rather than go to a Hairdresser? What do you do to your hair and how often? Do you ever relent and go to the stylist for help, when do you know it's time? I need stories!
Maria B 89860
I have been cutting/shaping my own hair now for years, mainly because it save me money .. there's a pile of hair money somewhere which I've yet to find!!!
Feb 11, 22
Someone who admires you sends more than a dozen red roses in a vase. Would you be willing to accept the advances or just the roses? Would you refuse it all?
Issam
There are many reasons for beautiful scenery of roses ??but it depends if you want or deserve it ????
Jan 28, 22
During the current European football championships I've been wearing my lucky pink, polka dot socks! Anyone else got any irrational superstitions??
Pato Lo Duck
I heard that in Asia, if a bird poos on your head it is lucky.. So I figured that if birds were lucky then having a bear poo on your head would be super lucky. Next time the koala came around I went and stood under the tree watching him, but I think he must have been constipated, so I gave up in the end and decided to continue being my old unlucky self for a bit longer..
Jan 20, 22
I have 2. Went my son's were born. That feeling you get when you first hear the little yell they give. It's like they are saying hello world I'm here, well screaming hello world I'm here. So many emotions and thoughts flooded my head. Happiness was the dominant feeling at those moments.
APB
You don't know just how good it is to be alive until you narrowly avoid being dead...the rush you get is the best ....no contest
Dec 24, 21
Would you choose a name for your child (or, if asked to name another's child) simply because it is popular or trendy?
Warrior Woman
PLEASE parents think about your child's future with the name you dump on it. As a teacher it was heartbreaking to see children ridiculed or embarrassed because they had been given 'cute' (at the time) or the names of once popular rock stars or celebrities or 'momentarily' popular names, often misspelt by the parents. Little "Princess", "Rowdy", "Hurricane" or "Feather" suffered and probably still do. Siobhann's mother was not Irish so she spelt it Shivawn and the poor girl had to spell it that way whenever she gave her name instead of the proud Irish way. Then came the popularity for nicknames being the real name so Archibald became Archie, John became Jack and Henry became Harry and even James became just Jimmy and Katherine became plain Kate. Give them the full, proper name so they can have a choice if they just want to be called a nickname rather than stuck with it all their life. Also please consider the name when attached to your surname. I spent a long time talking to classes that it was hurtful to burst out laughing every time poor Poppy Plant and Holly Busch were called. And honestly do people think I have never heard the joke, "What do you call a woman with one leg?"
Nov 13, 21
While working in a factory a few years ago, had spare time on my hands, too keep myself busy I would go wipe down benches wash dishes etc. One particular day I did the dishes scrubbed some of them as the cups were filthy, the owner of one of these cups hit the roof as he believed that tea tastes better from a dirty cup, so what do you think?
Larry S 382961
I worked as a school cleaner. One staff room has a sign over the sink.” This is a self cleaning area,you mess it you clean it”.
Oct 02, 21
You have plans for the upcoming weekend and have asked your sibling or close family member to watch your children, 2 under 4 years old. Do you pay the person given that when asking there was no mention of payment and it only being for 3 hours?
Maria B 89860
Labour of love is not a chore. It's like cooking and doing other things for your family or extended family and is acknowledge and thanked in a Birthday or Special Occasion cards. But neither is it forgotten as the children grow to an understanding age they are taught to return the kindness by being helpful to these caring people in as they get older .. mow their lawn and other such things.
Sep 12, 21
When I shop at specific Walmart stores, not all are bad as claimed. I ve been to the upscale ones that are in the neighborhoods of famous American football players and Basketball players, and they look like a mall. Anyway, I noticed that many of those working there don t want to help assist us. I try not to take up much of their time and I thank them multiple times and be courteous, even when they aren t. It does seem to help them and many behave nicer afterwards. What do...
Frank N
I tend to think that the atmosphere and staff culture of a store is set by senior management, although staff who are overworked and underpaid will react to that also.
Sep 11, 21
Has anyone had any type of account hacked before? We had our Netflix hacked recently, they hacked it and watched few movies and TV shows. If you were hacked what did you do besides change password
Diana A 392333
Both my and my husband's credit card were hacked and instead of doing nothing but cancel the card and have a new one sent out and my money reimbursed by the credit card company. I went on a mission to find out who it was. To cut a long story short, I contacted the merchants and found out the name, address, phone number and e-mail addresses of the two perpetrators and handed it over to police (needless to say I also stopped the goods from being sent out). I then also contacted the local newspaper (The Mercury) and they printed an article on how I was able to track down the hackers, I also wanted to share valuable tips on how people can avoid this from happening to them from the info I got from police. The article was in yesterday's Mercury and took up almost a full page. I also noticed that The Telegraph had the article in digital version too. I urge others to make the effort to do the same, because if no one does anything, these people will know they can do it again and again and always get away with it!
Jul 03, 21
According to me love marriage is better because the partners know each other so well and hence will have a comprehensive understating of the other person .
JoLongLegs
Marrying someone you love and have a connection with, the person you choose and they choose you to spend the rest of your lives together is better. Would not like to be with someone i didnt love.
Jun 12, 21
When you leave a partner and you have a pet is it appropriate / ideal to have shared custody?
LESLEY S 385154
I'm pleased to have never been put into this situation and never will. It is hard when your pet passes away so I think sharing would be as difficult as well. I think maybe for the pet let it decide.
May 12, 21
Do you use Cryptocurrency? Do you think the market for it is stable enough to incorporate saving for it into your budget? Or is Cryptocurrency a waste of time in your opinion?
judy
Us oldies haven't a clue what that's all about most of us are still trying to work out how to use a mobile. I prefer to pay cash ar paypal
Apr 25, 21
Within a very limited budget and wanting to do my bit, it is easy in small ways. Composting food waste, don t chuck it in the bin, take your soft plastics to Coles, they recycle it for you. You can put all you garden waste on the garden, just put it on top and let it dry out, you can buy Bioplastcs now in snack bags, sandwich bags and bin liners, wait until they are on special at Woolies or Coles. If you haven t the finances for Solar or Water Tanks, these are just...
Dang Ling-bits.
I find if I drink about 20 beers and then follow it up with Honey Bourbon, a few cocktails and a shot or two of Sambuca it tends to make me turn green.
Jan 06, 21
My partner really wants an Xbox and expects me to help pay for it. I tried to explain to him that I shouldn't have to help pay for his console since I won't be using it myself, although he believes I should help since his last one smashed due to us having an argument. He has asked me nicely, but I know it's all part of the act, at the moment I'm not to sure what to do since Christmas is coming up and who wouldn't buy their loved ones something they really want? What would...
Edith v
He sounds very selfish .I would be looking for a new boyfriend. Part of the Christmas spirit is to give what you can afford & give it with love.A surprise is good fun. Of course he's asked nicely & you are a wake up to the "act" bye the way has he said what he is buying you for a gift . I'd be looking for a more sincere man & give him his marching orders
Dec 10, 20
Once upon a time, I used to think napping was for lazy people. But now I've discovered a nap can actually improve my productivity. Are you a napper? If so, how long do you nap for and why?
Judy CH
I don't probably couldn't as people down the Road have dogs that bark nearly all day, but I have a sister 2 years younger than me that stays up nearly all night watching stupid movies then goe's to bed for a while, gets up to get the grandchildren off to school and goes takes sleeping pills and has another couple of hours, gets up at lunch time then more sleeping pills about 4 pm and up about 6.30!. I don't have much to do with her now she's so stupid!.
Dec 06, 20
They seem to either a). dial down their dreams in front of others in fear of what they might think or b). Disguise their aspirations with humour. Both are gutless, don't you think? When you have a dream, you should stand in your power. Dreaming small serves no-one!
MargT
I was brought up to believe not everyone will be pleased for whatever I do or have. I have learnt to be a little careful how loud I shout from the roof tops and tend to keep it within my immediate family and friends. It does not however stop me from going after any dream I may have and I have many. Dreams do come true!!
Nov 28, 20
Who wants to shop with little kids running around screaming and causing havoc. I didn t birth them and they are not my problem. I should be able to shop for my groceries in peace. A childfree supermarket would give the childless amongst us a choice.
MartyG
Wow! What has this world come to when this is considered a serious question?? We were all children once so shame on anyone for knocking parents just trying to do their best.
Can we also then have supermarkets that refuse entry to ignorant adults?? I would like to shop in a moron free environment.
Sep 06, 20
There is so much to be learnt from the elderly. They've lived through wars and journeyed through struggles we couldn't even comprehend. Yet they are almost dismissed by society. It really annoys me.
Cat Claw
When you're elderly, you either become invisible or an irritation. Younger people (and I include those well into their 40's even) become impatient with older people who are stuggling physically. I've seen it at supermarket check-outs all the time, the operator will whizz all the groceries through while the elderly person tries to keep up, then when the elder fumbles around trying to pay, those standing in line start sighing with impatience. I've even seen in family situations, the younger generations laughing or mocking their elders when they are trying to participate in a conversation. The whole 'ok boomer' tagline is the new "you wouldn't understand becuase you are not a parent' putdown that people who don't want to listen use. Elderly people deserve far more respect and patience than what they currently get.
Nov 25, 20
I never saw the appeal of Ken myself. And my Barbie dolls never played with him. I think Barbie should kick Ken to the curb. Do you?
Bugalugs
This is the sort of topic which would be of interest to a certain childish US president who just lost the election and baby did not like it!
Nov 25, 20
I'm not an anti-monarchist by any stretch of the imagination but I don't follow Harry and Meghan's Instagram like some people do.
Katzeye
I don't follow them at all or any celebrities for that matter,more important things to do with my spare time.
Oct 01, 20
I mean, first we were told they were bad for us and high in cholesterol. Then we were told they were good for us with high-quality protein. Then we were told they were bad for us again. What is the actual verdict on the nutrition of eggs? Does anybody actually know?
Pato Lo Duck
Eggs are high in cholesterol, but it is good cholesterol and as such eggs are good for you. On the other hand, pairing them with bacon is bad, because bacon is bad for you on a number of fronts. But bacon tastes so good...
Sep 18, 20
During the pandemic, chief health officers and doctors across the world have found themselves being lusted after. In Australia, chief health officer, Brett Sutton has a facebook page dedicated to him, where middle aged women lust after him. Does anyone else find this phenomenon weird?
Autumn
It makes more sense to make a hero of someone who can save your life, rather than one who just looks good.
Nov 18, 20
If you had to choose between Smarties and M&Ms, which would you favour?
APB
I love these deep philosophical debates ...I would only eat either of them if it was the last food source on Earth and I hadn't eaten in a few days...
Oct 11, 20
I could think of nothing worse than spending my days liking and sharing posts on social media. I don't care about a photo of my mate's lunch. Life is short. Who wants to take their last breath scrolling and swiping? Not me
Sammi
lt's pretty sad that people count the stranger they share the life's with as friends. lt must be lonely
Oct 06, 20
Economists say that the future could possibly be cashless. But it could be problematic for low-income individuals. Do you think this would work or not ? If so, why?
Bugalugs
I already almost entirely do. I am no techno genius, nerd or particularly "modern" but I find I can manage my money better, I pay all my bills electronically (is that "digitally"?), have numerous accounts (with the same bank) and divide my income between them for specific reasons (Utilities, phone, rates etc.) so the money is always there when a bill is due. All my grocery buying is done using a Debit card.
Sep 22, 20
Most of my friends get fake tans, it's the safer option. But I love sunbaking. I know that it can cause skin cancer, I know that it can cause premature ageing but that doesn't remove my love for it. There is something revitalizing about the sun beating down and penetrating your skin
Bugalugs
I tyan very easily - thanks to my Indian Heritage all mixed ip with my Irish-Spanish blood. As my Dad used to say: I am a real mongrel!
Aug 04, 20
Do you hire professionals or do you DIY for home maintenance projects e.g. driveway cleaning, exterior home cleaning, painting etc?
Lovey
We call my husband's son - who - is a gifted "jack of all trades" and take him out to dinner as a "thank you!"
Aug 07, 25
What stories can you share about first words that aren't Mum or Dad? I know ours was actually our cats name ...
DeANG
My son is 26 years old and up until today I can still recall when he was 5 months old and I was trying to teach him to say Papa instead he would say papaw, it was so funny to hear.
Sep 21, 23
All I ve noticed is an increase in commercials getting you to invest in real gold. IE .buying bricks and keeping them under your bed? It might be that gold is a good investment for some, but it's not the right move for everyone. Gold is typically considered a low-risk, safe-haven investment, but it's not one that offers high returns. Does anyone have any comment one way or the other? If so, please help me understand via proof or quotes from your sources. In this economy fact...
Glenyse H
Not for me . I have a couple of Company\u2019s that produce gold and the dividends are enough for me.
Sep 02, 23
Whatever happened to all cars having a strong steel bumper bar front and back and a thick chassis underneath? Back in the day if you had a crash you can mostly be guaranteed to either drive away or have your car fixed quite quickly with minimal cost. Today have a small bump on the car and it's a completer write-off. Bumper bars and chassis were there for a reason and that reason is safety for the occupants of the car. You may have got a bit shook up but you were never seriously...
Joanne Y 440141
Sure as hell felt safer driving around in my 1957 Chev compared to my 2009 VE Commodore. Older cars were made of real steel and made to last, new cars are just throw away items hence why they have the safety of the air bags etc etc.
Mar 09, 21
Online education offers access to programs for many who can't afford the time or tuition of a traditional degree, but they rely heavily on written assignments and quizzes that AI can easily answer. Can online schools survive in the world of ChatGPT, BingChat etc.?
23
AI will pose challenges to civilization and people, as did the Industrial Revolution in the 19th Century or the introduction of computers in the workplace. AI is an extension of this, and it will be interesting to see how people and the workplace will change.
Jul 12, 23
Do you feel guilty when you watch real-life crime shows? They are so sensationalized and basically exploiting a person's tragic end. I love crime shows but I always wonder if consuming them is ethical. Thoughts?
Lynn
I do like the way the British do their series such as Midsomer Murders, The Bill, Heartbeat etc. Also like crime shows that actually show the real people at the end of the movie that has been shown. I only watch movies of real life stories and find them very interesting.
Oct 29, 20
I avoid going to the doctor like the plague. I just don't want to know. What I don't know won't hurt me. But I know I should go. I should do a lot of things.
blunder boy
every fortnight I check in with my bottle of Woodford reserve [double oaked] he says I am doing fine and see you in 2 weeks, occasionally if I have any doubts I might check in with the cc a dry 10-pack or carton in between appointments and I am generally reassured
Feb 21, 23
If someone has lied to you more than once about certain things. Does that break your trust? If so, is it hard to gain that trust back, or does that make people see you as a bitter person?
Crazy Chef
There are people I love, but certainly don't trust because of this very issue. Trust is an important but easily broken thing.
Dec 22, 22
I recently got married, and we didn't have a big fancy wedding ... just got married in the backyard with our closest friends. I want to book a trip for me and the hubby that's somewhat inexpensive but romantic at the same time. I need ideas and input please and thank you
Darla T
Sample the options right in your area that you never thought of doing before. You can stay at home but each day plan to do something different and explore what has always been there but you were too busy to notice until now. You get to pick 3 things and so does he.
Oct 02, 22
Wanted to know if anyone still uses remedies or have remedies they don't mind sharing in the comment for colds & flus, with weather getting so much colder than usually this year? I like to go with good old pumpkin soup but with a few dashes of chilli just to give it a good hot kick :)
Carmel C 103964
Can't go by putting a few drops of eucalyptus oil in a bowl of hot water and putting your head over it, covering yourself with a towel and inhaling deeply for a while. Then off to bed with a hot lemon juice and honey drink. Stay hydrated. Rest up, eat a balanced diet, laugh lots and get some sunshine if you can.
Jun 28, 22
Easter seems to changed over the years with many more products on the market. Do you give Easter gifts other than chocolate s? If so, what do you give others at this time of year?
Lones
Growing up, we made an Easter basket at school and received small eggs from the Easter bunny, Easter is about other things than chocolate. These days children seem to get too much and don’t appreciate what they receive. Maybe the should learn the true meaning of Easter
Mar 15, 22
Many may think: Well, that's what a first date is, but what I mean is, if you were sitting alone and another was sitting alone at a restaurant, would you accept the offer (or make the offer) to eat with them? Or, would you even dine alone in the first place?
Bill B 394870
I guess its a good way to meet people but ive always found it somewhat terrifying eating alone in a restaurant and avoid it.
Feb 08, 22
What do u do if u don't want to invite certain family members to celebrate holidays activities? Do u forget their invite on purpose or invite them and out up with their nonsense anyway?
Colinpop
Live is too short to bear grudges and families are so important so just put on a brave face and enjoy
Dec 25, 21
Do you plan on making any home improvements? If so what and do you plan on doing it yourself or hire someone to do it for you?
Roslyn A
I get too annoyed with tradies who don't seem to care much about how they do it - I do as much as possible myself and I have become very professional
Aug 03, 21
I love very much my son, but the love that I feel for his 3 years old twin girls (my grand-kids) is much much more that I can express. It's that OK?
lippy loo
How lovely for you. I do not have any contact with my grand children and have never met 2 of them. Family dynamics can be sad sometimes.
Jun 18, 21
How has distance learning been going for all the parents out there? Especially parents with special needs children? I have two autistic toddlers and it has been rough!
Imperia S '' PIER''
I am so lucky my kids are grown up with families of their own. I am so proud of all parents who had to fill this void, I would have never been able to cope,
Apr 12, 21
Hocking one's belongings is not ideal obviously. But it's an option if you're broke, struggling, an artist or living paycheck to paycheck. I certainly don't judge people who do it. What are your thoughts on pawn shops and the people who use them?
BLM
I don't get attached to things (I get attached to people)! At this point in my life - I never had to hocked ANYTHING (I never had to use a pawn shop) - hopeful, this trend will continue until the day I die! It goes without saying, I don't judge people who do use pawnshops, however - I judge pawn shop owners (since the the majority of pawnshops are located in the poorest section of a city)!
Nov 08, 20
I prefer to pack my own groceries at the supermarket, even though I have ample bags they always pack to overflow and pack all the cans in together so I can't even lift the bag. Bread laying down on top of one another instead of standing up so it won't squash. Yesterday the flour was in the cold bag, making the paper damp. Am I to picky or do other people have the same gripe?
Queenbee
It is quite often that they will overload your bag and it is dry heavy to put in and out of your trolley. Of course they want to serve and scan quickly and packing takes time. But the supermarkets need have more staff at checkouts and then we all win.
Feb 10, 21
How lovely is it, when we receive a gift where a lot of thought has gone into it? ie: something unconventional or homemade. You remember those kinds of gifts forever. It's easy to buy someone chocolates or flowers, as nice as they are. What is the most thoughtful gift you have ever given or received? And why was it so special?
Morton B
I am grateful for whatever I receive because it means that person thought of me. Its the thought that counts
Dec 27, 20
Futurists believe that human immortality will definitely be a certainty, what are your thoughts? Would you like to be immortal?
JoeB
Genetic modification will allow people to live longer but when your number is up, it’s up. Perfectly healthy people die for no reason....except maybe the Force wants your story back....lol
Oct 20, 20
I don't really care what's in fashion or what's considered cool. I have my own classic style. People that pay attention to fashion trends are sheep who don t know themselves.
Katzeye
I wear whatever makes me feel comfortable,happy,stylish and sometimes sexy lol basically whatever my mood is on the day,I wear something to match that unless I am just blobbing out at home on the couch,well then that's a PJ day..You won't find any designer labels in my wardrobe though,i'm not that rich.
Sep 01, 20
I know the company has gone global and gets good reviews But having ingredients delivered, then having to cook it myself -- doesn't whet my appetite.
RonT
No but I want to try it once only. After that I don't want any further emails, marketing etc, I want to see what it it like to satisfy my curiousity
Aug 12, 20
So much of our time is spent on the net, but I'm wondering if it is right that I might put up a birthday message to someone and then have another friend add a happy birthday sentiment even though they do not know them?
glory 1277945
You put message on the board so expect this. If you want privacy send a card. More time spend, but it's more personal
Dec 05, 23
I have 5 beautiful grandchildren ranging in age from 18 months to 9 years. They have so many toys, books & games. Each birthday & Christmas I try to think of something different for them. The 9 year old's last birthday I chose a membership to a Kids Conservation club. She gets invited to fun activities, plus receives relevant activity books & parcels every few months. There are activities they can do as a family. Like visiting the glow worms, studying crabs etc. Do most...
Jan H 753322
We have 6 grandchildren, aged 5- 18. We have given them blocks, books, dolls and truck as presents for them to take home. I have always made up a box of things to do when they are at our place . A new board game, craft , paints and an outside toy or basketball etc
Aug 22, 23
Is it inevitable. Companies are getting smarter and gathering more personal data with every click - what's your experience so far, do they get the 'suggested' products or services right and does it actually suggest things you would like?
Pennye R
I really don\u2019t like the fact that my phone is listening to my conversations and Facebook is tracking my likes. I prefer to look up products that I need myself.
Aug 07, 23
Just wondering if anyone has told a lie no matter if it is big or small to make sure that your partner stay with you
AMUSICALTONY
My wife is 5 years older than me. When we had been together for a year and it came to asking her to marry me she found out then. I don't think that's a lie but she just assumed I was older. She still married me though and we've been married for 46 years.
Aug 17, 22
Boardgames were very popular when I was growing up, and I really enjoyed playing them. These days people play more on computers, smartphones and gaming consoles. Do you still play boardgames? What are some of your favourites?
IdentifyAs
I don't have anyone to play with, so if I play any games it's usually on the ipad like rewardia. I loved monopoly, cluedo, trivial pursuit and trouble
Jul 13, 22
Who has had the greatest influence in your life? Someone who has really made a difference
Jania S
Jesus, and family and friends, I have been truly blessed through thick and thin,,, I have always had the best influence.
Jun 23, 22
Would you move countries at the drop of the hat? Only having less than a month to decide I've done it. It was a blast. I left NZ to go and live in Dallas, Texas (San Antonio, Arlington, and Grand Prairie) back in 2000. I lived there for the next 8 1/2 years and had a blast. Unfortunate circumstances meant that I had to move back to NZ, and it's where I had stayed since. Given the opportunity. I would so do it again in a heartbeat, but somewhere different...
Elizabeth J 447888
I am rather taken with Finland. It is known as the happiest country on earth. Their language is hard to learn I believe. I think I could live there for a few years. It is a year and a half since making a move in my own state and still haven't finished unpacking. No, don't think I could go through it again.
May 25, 22
Can you give an unbiased opinion? Sometimes, in the least? Or, too difficult when it involves your close relationships?
Dimitri T 100433
in my humble opinion, we all have biased since it is our opinion based on our perceptions,which are also biased
Apr 27, 22
You may find the following tips helpful. Use a bowl in the sink when washing fruit, vegetables or dishes. You can then use the waste water to water your plants. Fill a jug with water and put it in the fridge for when you want a cool drink. Turn off the tap when you clean your teeth. A running tap uses up to nine litres of water a minute. If possible, take a shower instead of a bath. A five-minute shower uses about 40 litres of water. This is about...
TERRIE K
I do most of these now but I'm just wondering what a Water Butt is. We have 3 rainwater tanks and use that to give fresh water to my birds and to water the garden.
Apr 14, 22
Lots of people are on their phones but for how long? I see people that act like they can't stand being away from their phones but other can, so I want your opinion on this. Are you a phone freak or not? How many hours do you spend on your phone?
Edienz
I use it most of the time instead of a computer. I download and read books, do banking, play games, do surveys, take and edit photos, send texts and emails, research products, order products, watch videos, listen to music, read the news, find recipes and craft patterns, learn French and Chinese, book tickets and accommodation and ask questions about anything I want to know. That takes up most of my day! I very rarely use it to ring people.
Feb 12, 22
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