Discussions of the day
I have noticed over the years that people who play a lot of video games become aggressive in their day-to-day life. I try not to judge people but this personality change is pretty hard to miss. Anyone else experienced this?
Phyrephly
I think it also a desensitivity to violence in general with constantly seeing increasingly realistic imagery of people being raped or blown up or stabbed/gutted with knives. Then, the lights/bells/whistles that go off when you might kill another being (in a game) to win the round or whatever, makes violence a thing to be used to maybe get ahead of the game in real life. Sadly, I think many of these ultra violent/realistic type games were/are designed to do this. When you stab someone to death, they don't really die- they just come back at you in the next round. If you do this countless times then you very well may in some small way expect the same to occur in real life, especially if you haven't yet fully developed a brain that can tell the difference (fully) between RL and a game situation or scene. Bully or brutish behaviour, towards women say, if very often associated with heroism. The 'hero' of the round got to be the hero because he just shot 25 "bad guys" up with an AK47. 7 and 8 year olds may hav
Jul 21, 20
I'm a xennial and didn't grow up with social media. And I am so glad about that. Kids today spend too much time looking at a screen, when they should be outside being present and exploring the natural world around them
Edith v
In an ideal world yes, but In our day we didn't have as many perverts & weirdo's .A balance like reading & supervised outdoor fun excursions & some computer etc is great .Parents must make more time for their children
Jul 08, 20
I used to save but in recent years I've adapted a more easygoing perspective. Money comes and money goes. I might as well enjoy it.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Definitely a saver and have an annoying habit of generally talking myself out of buying something I could use (until the next time).
Aug 09, 20
I'm happy to pay money to purchase a rental on YouTube, so I can watch exactly what I want. I find I spend more time on Netflix browsing, It's problematic! I'm thinking about giving up my Netflix subscription and purchasing from YouTube every time.
Barbara T (Koondrook Vic)
Have not rented movies or any TV series on YouTube and why would you?? There are free movie channels around, some of which show TV content so why pay for something when there is no need?
Aug 05, 20
I used to know a delivery driver for a weight loss franchise and he told me they put laxatives in the food. I always wondered after that if it could be true. Nothing would surprise me in this day and age. But surely it would have to be listed as an ingredient?
Margaret C 77490
Also if that was the case then something like meals on wheels would do that if it was legal and same as our nursing homes but they don't as you can get in trouble plus with the technology today nothing goes undected they can even test our sewerage .but years ago before we had all this technology it might have happened like maybe 25 to 30 yrs ago as things were not very strict then either.
Sep 16, 20
Whether it be your older siblings "mix" CD's, which were compiled from illegally downloaded soundtracks, or a beat up old CD from the local library, as a child, what was your first ever album you listened to?
Bill B 394870
An LP, long playing vinyl record, of the Seekers with Judith Duram, " I'll Never find another you "....thought bit was a sheperd singing about his lost sheep....
Aug 12, 22
Deceased or alive, which actor/actress/entertainer would you prefer play the role of you?
Edith v
Helen Mirren She doesn't do plastic surgery or Botox .She is down to earth dresses well & is interesting & interested
Dec 30, 21
... mine are so spoilt it's ridiculous ....I have a mini horse that comes inside and watches horse racing on Saturday with me .. we sit on the rug with my dog and put our bets on .., I also have a dog that is bigger than she is .....
StaceSteele
2 RSPCA recuse dogs who are now elderly as they have been living with us 8 and 9 years as they were adopted a year apart.
Mar 27, 21
What is the weirdest choice you made for a school lunch? Back in the 50 s & 60 s the favourite choices included, sugar on bread and butter, tomato sauce sandwich, banana sandwich, baked beans or spaghetti sandwich, chocolate spread sandwich, cream cheese, peanut butter or Vegemite sandwiches. I preferred a sugar sandwich any day.
misfortune8
I was never into salads, but a lot of kids used to take salads with beetroot. The beetroot juice would turn the whole salad purple - even the cheese! It always grossed me out, but the kids who brought it always said it was good. I've got a friend who packs this for her work lunch.
Jan 05, 21
Unless you want to be an architect, astronaut or engineer, you will never use it in your adult life. One size doesn t fit all when it comes to education. Have you ever used trigonometry since leaving school?
Margarret F
Yes I have used it and wish i had done more and understood it better.
Nothing one learns is ever wasted. Understanding such concepts comes up in unexpected ways.
Nov 05, 20
Are you a high vibe person? Or a low vibe person? Or perhaps somewhere in between? Low vibe activities include negative thinking, eating unhealthy foods and scrolling social media for hours on end. High vibe activities involve fitness, self care and productivity. I try to remain in a high vibe. But I'm human, sometimes I fall flat on my face!
Henry W 362692
Since COVID -19 restrictions I’m definitely high vibe,I’ve been riding my bike for one hour each day & loving it, as I ride I say good morning to dozens of people who are walking their dogs it is a great feeling to be alive.
Nov 12, 20
Some people just create a discussion page, stand away, light the blue touch paper ... and then just stand back and watch the reaction. Like an artist who has created something. Other folk (guilty) stand around "hosting" the questions ... discussing things that come up and try to develop the page. Which sort is best?...
IdentifyAs
As with any debate, you need to be respectful of the opinion of others. In order to form an opinion, be informed. If the topic bothers you too much and you feel threatened or angry, just scroll on.
Nov 09, 21
What do you believe is better, summer or winter holidays? What are the pros and cons of each. Which do you enjoy more?
EILEEN W 310556
Summer every time for me. I left England because I was severely sick almost every winter with colds, flu, bronchitis and allergies. I then found I could not tolerate Melbourne winters as I was so miserable and sick. After moving to Queensland I was diagnosed with SADS (Seasonal Adjustment Disorder Syndrome) meaning my body cannot cope with changing climate extremes. I also have a lung disease which is now able to be treated and responds so well to warm/hot weather. I can cope, although not happily, with the few weeks of winter we have here.
Dec 27, 20
When people talk about the best bands of all time. The Beatles and The Stones always get a mention. Which band is the best as far as you're concerned? It's a tough call!
john w 87680
Stones. Used to go to a gig they played in London when I was a teen remember Mick on the door collecting half-crowns entry fees.
Oct 28, 20
There are all these memes going around that say pineapple doesn t belong on pizza. But it does! I love pineapple on pizza, it s my favourite! I think these memes are wrong. What do you think?
CHERRY BLOSSOM
Yes i love pineapple on my pizza, as i can dream that i am on a deserted island eating my pineapple on my pizza.
Oct 08, 20
I suffer from Endometriosis and was recently told by my doctor that CBD may help. I've read heaps of articles on the internet, that say the oil has changed their life. I am thinking about trying it. What are other people's experiences with it?
Bugalugs
The problem really is that it is called Hemp and some silly people immediately associate this product with Illicit Drug Use when in fact it contains none of the drug associated with smoking pot/weed etc.. I would certainly try it if I had an issue with severe, on-going pain.
Jul 28, 20
Actually, in all honesty, I find it offensive. A day for conglomerates to make money out of the contrivance of romance. If I love someone, I don t need a special day, set out by society for me. Love is far too evolved for a day where people exchange red roses and cheesy greeting cards. Yuck!
Henrietta
When Valentine's Day first started (in America, of course!!) it was just a small gesture to the person you loved but now it has lost it's meaning & come too commercialised & something we now don't need.
Jul 27, 20
I honestly cannot imagine buying a man a kettle or a vacuum as a gift. I mean what person on earth enjoys cleaning? I think gifts should be about pleasure not household chores.
Phyrephly
....is it um, let's see...I know...racist to buy a white kettle? Get a grip people. Aren't we better than this?
Jul 09, 20
Is anyone else a huge fan of coconut oil? I promise you, once you discover it's versatility, you'll never go back. You can use it for cooking, as a hair treatment. Seriously, I could not live without it!
Wombatwagon
My granddaughter had very bad cradle cap when she was younger and nothing got rid of it until her mother used coconut oil. It was very easy to use just put it through her hair and leave on and worked well.
Nov 01, 20
Will it change the way you use social media? I am so grateful the documentary was made, it can be the beginning of accountability and change. It s incredible that none of the computer scientists who created social media allow their children to use it. They understand how damaging it is, I guess.
Linda C
Not on social media and have no children on it either. The little I know of it though it sounds scary and dangerous.
Oct 30, 20
I still do. I love writing out Christmas cards and sending them. I think it's a nice touch in this digital world we are living in. I don t care if it s traditional and old-fashioned. It brings me joy.
LESLEY S 385154
Every year I make my cards and send them to family and friends for Christmas and birthdays. They really enjoy receiving them.
Sep 08, 20
Does loud chewing irritate you? It drives me crazy. I mean were these people brought up in a cave? Where are their manners?
Imperia S
I personally have no problems with the way people eat their food, so long as they enjoy the meal and thank the person that cooked it. And does anyone realize that in some Countries it is considered OK to burp at the table or if they lick the plate after a meal, It shows the provider that the person appreciated and enjoyed the meal. In Australia, we are so "Would Bes" that we frown at everything
Sep 07, 20
I would rather be eaten by a crocodile than die in a plane crash. The thought is truly terrifying. But because I travel a lot, I've had to learn how to cope. I find copious amounts of wine helps calm my fear.
Stephen F 84899
Have flow alot, but the only time was when the plane attempted to land the weather was wet & the plane slid over the tarmat so scary
Sep 03, 20
Has it got to the point in our evolution where we can't string a bunch of sentences together coherently? The other day, I received a text from the opposite sex that basically spoke in full emoji and I had no idea what they were talking about. Perhaps we should give up speaking all together and start grunting.
Linda C
I have seen people sitting next to each other speaking via their phone text messages. Utterly ridiculous. Still see them texting whilst driving. Can't put the things down for 5 seconds. I agree, these emoji's confuse me also. Maybe English should be taught in schools again like it was 50 years ago.
Aug 22, 20
Have you become more creative and resourceful during lockdown? What have you learnt most about yourself? I have found different ways to express myself and connect with people through the digital world, what about you?
Rebecca P 97055
Definitely more creative and resourceful during lockdown, in a lot of ways it has put things in perspective for me and has changed the way I view the world...I'm more outspoken and has reminded me of just how precious each day can be, it's the little things that matter most
Jul 29, 20
When I overuse social media I really feel a lull in my mood. Sometimes it can lead to a major depression. Other times I just feel really anxious. I have given up social media many times throughout the years and always feel my life force come back. Perhaps it's time to deactivate or delete again?
Heather M 241632
I'm not on Facebook or Instagram. I don't know the names of the other ones. Rewardia is the closest thing to social media that I'm involved in. I don't feel the need for the approval of people who feel they have the right to abuse me because I don't know them. The whole idea seems ridiculous to me, but I know that children can be harmed by things that they see on social media.
Jul 23, 20
Apart from the fact one mostly sees overweight people drinking it. If you're going to drink Coke at all, why not drink the real thing? I've read that artificial sweeteners are really unhealthy for your body. Diet coke? No thanks!
Helen A 395807
Diet coke is very unhealthy and actually makes people gain weight. The original Coke Formula "7X" was manufactured outside in a 44 gallon drum by a pharmacist. So from crap Coke to Diet coke I don't touch the stuff.
Jul 15, 20
Once upon a time, to be considered beautiful, meant you had won the genetic lottery. Now any ordinary person who's had plastic surgery makes the grade. As far as I'm concerned, if it's artificial, it doesn't count!
Katzeye
Not a chance and there is no way I would ever get botox or any enhancing surgery on my face or my body for that matter.If you live a balanced healthy lifestyle and look after your skin there is no need for work to be done.The best thing you can do for your skin,use sunscreen daily even in winter.
Jul 10, 20
In the 80s I used to go to Bingo with my grandpa, the numbers were called out slow and the game was nice and relaxed. In 2019, I went as a joke with a friend after a bottle of wine. And we couldn t believe how fast bingo had gotten. It was like an Olympic Sport. It seems life sped up and so did the bingo halls.
Joe B 288252
It used to be fun but now it’s like a chore and all about the money. The fun is gone, the social side is gone...bah!!!
Nov 21, 20
YouTube is a wonderful resource for DIY activities. So quirky and inventive. Creators making acrylic nails from toilet paper or designing lookalike celebrity fashions from thrift shop bargains. Do you watch DIY videos on youtube? If so, what are your favourite channels?
Joe B 288252
Some things are ok but You Tube has a penchant to shunt you to a porn tube after about 5 clicks....annoying
Oct 31, 20
So many people hate individual sports such as tennis, they find it boring. I m the opposite, I think it's more exciting than team sports. It's about tactics and the individual. Are you a tennis fan? Do you prefer individual sports to team sports?
Priscilla R 316016
Think it is great to watch and to play. My 86 year old neighbour still plays twice a week - not a Federer game these days, but she still gets round the court very well.
Oct 23, 20
I recently purchased a swisse ball for crunches. Great buy! My abs are finally starting to get some definition.
Henry W 362692
My last fitness equipment was buying a bike which I use everyday weather permitting don’t need any other gear
Sep 25, 20
I did once and I still feel guilty about it. But I couldn't find a parking spot and I was majorly stressed out. Sometimes it's nice to play the rebel.
Linda C
Yes I have a permit but it does really annoy me to see people with no sticker do it. Self important morons
Aug 15, 20
I love reading, so the thought of an author of a book reading to me via an audio book makes me want to vomit. Podcasts are the same, I haven't given them a proper go yet and maybe I should. In the 90s, audio books were more targeted to the elderly audience. So the fact that millennials buy them on Audible is a shock to this Xennial
Joe B 288252
Different strokes for different folks. If you don’t like something then just don’t do it, no need to get your lingerie into a gordion knot
Jul 31, 20
Does anyone have a blog or website that is really easy to use? I am going to set mine up this week, so if you love the site you use, please let me know and also drop a referral link if you get a bonus for referring someone!
Rifat H
I created my own website during my days at Uni. Back in those days Geocities was popular and they offered free webhosting. I even registered a domain name with another company which directed you to the website when you typed in the name (which I chose) followed by dot com!
Believe it or not the domain name service was offered by a Russian man. He mentioned his name by e-mail and I replied back that there was a boy in our school who had the same name.
He replied back "You may think of me as that boy in your school". I thought this was quite funny at the time ;-)
May 28, 22
Digital theater, opera and cultural events are booming with lockdown and restrictions globally. Art and culture is now being consumed online. Have you watched digital theater, art installations or opera/musicals online? If so, how did you find the experience?
Rosemary E 383382
I have watched some sports that have been televised via webcams such the motorsport where they "drove" the cars on computers.....and some broke a few rules. Some were penalised the same as if it had been real life racing.
Nov 24, 20
I couldn't wait to get my first set of satin sheets. I considered them to be luxurious and sensual. Boy, was I disappointed! You literally slide across the bed. There is no grip. Perhaps this is the allure? There are better ways to do sexy.
Sabine V
l think they are a waste if money. They are cold in the winter and hot in the summer, they don't breath so there is not circulation. The blankets slide off the bed and so due you, how can that be sexy but the look sexy.
Sep 05, 20
I kid you not, I have never spoken to a real person at Facebook. It's all bots and generic messages and emails. It's disgusting, with all the money they make, they should provide customer service. It's the least they can do.
Carmel C 103964
Absolutely love Facebook...and despise a few things that the admins are really crap at. FB has opened up my world and let me communicate really easily with all my family and friends who are scattered around the world. IT has linked me to many groups which I use daily. It saves me time and allows access to so much that benefits ALL my hobbies.
Yes I hate some things about Facebook BUT there are far more good things about it than bad though.
Lately I've been reporting fake business accounts who are trying to scam people...and only getting automated replies that fail to fix the issue. Replies that tell me the fake accounts aren't breaking any of their rules! What the!!!!!!
So I have had to take it upon myself to start posting warnings in the Newsfeeds. It is greater than disappointing that Facebook is choosing to treat the real businesses and their Followers like that.
Will Facebook survive without better customer service? Yes, it will....but not in a manner that the Facebook admins want it to
Aug 19, 20
Sometimes it feels like it. If you're not famous, well then you pretty much shouldn't have the audacity to exist. At least that's what it feels like to me.
Anwyn W
You need to differentiate between being famous because you have achieved something noteworthy (invention/discovery/etc) or just "famous" with some sort of celebrity because you have so many followers on Twitter etc.
Jul 24, 20
It can be anything for the home, office or garage for storing goods. For example, I recently purchased a 27 litre plastic storage container
Phyrephly
...a sewing machine cabinet with plenty of space for "stuff" - converts to a side cupboard when sewing machine is not in use.
Jul 14, 20
This year marks 50 years since the hijacking that changed air travel. The FBI have removed the casefile from the active to the inactive. It is a felony, so there is no statute of limitations. But there remains so many unanswered questions to this day. Is he still alive? Does the government know the truth (they cover up so many events, why not this one)? And....where is he if he is still among us?
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Not fifty years (ago) - will be fifty years (ago) on 11/24/2021. It did lead to enhanced security for boarding an airplane in the US - you can not carry a gun onboard (on any US airlines) - unless you are a Sky Marshal (US Marshals Service - at the federal Level). I hope when he (white male terrorist) parachuted off the airplane - he broke his legs, starved to death (he never got caught), and NEVER got the opportunity to spend any of the money he attain (illegally). Since he knowingly terrorized a plane load of innocent passengers for monetary gain. Furthermore, when he parachuted off the airpane - he put the airplane crew and passengers lives at risk (airplane carrying passengers - are not set up for a passenger to parachuted from the airplane)!
Apr 05, 21
I'd be lost without my diary. How do people that don t use diaries or day planners keep their life organised?
Priscilla R 316016
Most these days seem to use their phone or computer calendar. It seems the days of remembering things like phone numbers and appointments and even shopping lists have long gone. Pity that the brain doesn't get used to keep the grey matter working efficiently too.
Sep 30, 20
Overdosing on prawns, crayfish and mussels always seems like a delightful idea at the time but the intense headaches and tremors that can follow such a binge are ghastly.
Helen A 395807
I worked 7 years in the fishing industry and ate many different things from fish, crays to abalone. I have never felt ill/had headaches. I think mercury would only be a concern in such things as big game fish like marlin, or shark where it is more concentrated..
Sep 26, 20
I would turn to Eastern medicine. Western medicine tends to focus on the 99 that died rather than the one who lived -- they don't mind prescribing addictive drugs either. I like that Eastern medicine is natural and holistic.
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I was born in western civilization and was programmed (ruthless) to take a dim view of eastern medicine. However, too much MONEY is involve in western medicine (which has lead to corruption). Furthermore, MD(s) has no qualms about prescribing addictive drugs to you (which means you have to ask questions)! LUCKY ME - I have not been sick in over four years (and counting) and I have not seen an MD in over four years (and counting). Therefore, I am open to trying eastern medicine (based on its approach: natural and holistic)!!
Sep 02, 20
I've tried everything for insomnia. Counting sheep, meditation, medication. Nothing works. Any fellow insomniacs got some tips on how to get to the Land of Nod?
JANET R 328390
I agree that breathing in and out helps to relax the mind ............usually after a while I will fall asleep. I also believe in some lavender oil - the aroma seems to help me. Beware of "stress" I say .....................
Aug 07, 20
Procrastination is such an unhelpful state to be in and I hate it when I procrastinate but I am human and it happens. It happens before gym workouts, it happens before massive career decisions. It happens before cleaning the house. But I always feel better after any task is done and often wonder why I procrastinated in the first place. Surely others feel like this too?
Linda C
No I am the type that if it needs doing, do it. I do believe one has to think on big issues that might affect you, others, finance, job etc. before making such a major change or decision but to dither for ages is not a good state to be in for yourself or others it might affect. I usually go with my gut feeling and it has not steered me wrong yet and I am in my 70's.
Sep 29, 20
I love online shopping. Whether it's clothes shopping, grocery shopping or even electrical goods. I do it all online. I love the convenience of it
Kristyanne R
I do click and collect for shopping but try to by local most of the time covid has made things a struggle for our smaller stores
Jul 18, 20
I never would have believed, I could part with my belongings. But I got tired of lugging around boxes of stuff and decided to minimize. It s not easy saying goodbye to things that have been in your life for decades. But in the aftermath you feel lighter. It's freeing.
Bugalugs
Nah! I like my bit of clutter! Must say though that now I am getting on - well just a bit! - I have started using the really good things I have collected. I used to entertain friends with regular dinners - with all the trappings good crystal, china etc. and it only got use then. Now they are all dead and I use it all every day 'cos one day so will I be!
Jul 25, 20
If someone had told me seven years ago that I would give up tangible print books all together, I would have laughed in their face. But eBooks are so easy to store. I carry hundreds of books around with me on my phone. It's perfect. Plus real books clog up one's house and space
Mr White
One can never get past the book, it will last forever, electronics eventually will die and feed & become nothing in the ashes of time
Jul 11, 20
Meditation is a fairly new ritual for me but I have found it has improved my state of mind. Do you use guided meditations on apps or youtube? Do you meditate to music? Or in silence?
Metachair
Don't listen to others. I find out you needed to listen to your soul and understand them. The inner voice and do as you think its rights. Going to church is a great ways to meet peoples and talk. I vold church as my mother hates its once i go i find my soul
Aug 01, 20
I mean, a lot of scientists around the world believe we are and these scientists study reality for their livelihoods. Do they know more than us?
Joe B 288252
Yes of course. We can only be in a simulation or in a not simulation. Either way God is getting a good belly laugh
Jul 22, 20
What do you find more soothing? Heat Bags are obviously quicker to organise when you re in pain or feeling cold. But I ve found hot water bottles keep their warmth longer
BLACK LIVES MATTER
I will admit I am old (not dead - yet - I do have one foot in my grave) - I do not use either (my guess will be heat bags would be safer). If I am feeling cold - I will reset my smart thermostat. If I am in pain - I will scheduled a video chat with a nurse (with my health plan)! Unfortunately, you can't take your money with you when you die - I will spend my money making my last days (or years) enjoyable!
Nov 04, 20
I am thinking about selling artistic products that I have made. Is it a good platform? Would you recommend it? A lot of folks seem to make decent money from it
Maria B 89860
Only heard the name.
]]]]]]]]]]]]]] this bit of useless info curtesy of my cat walking across the keyboard HELPING!!!On a sensible note, you seem to have very positive response from "people in the know" ... Good Luck.
Aug 23, 20
I have been drinking more wine during lockdown than prior to my life pre-lockdown. It's really concerning. But when there is a pandemic happening, wine can feel like a good idea -- for me anyway
Elaine D 99552
No. Why would I need to? I find prayer more effective than alcohol to find peace in the middle of a pandemic, but I understand that not everyone has discovered that yet.
Jul 17, 20
I ve never written anything myself but I quite enjoy reading certain subreddits, they can be pretty funny. How about you?
Joe B 288252
No I don’t reddit, blueit, greenit or any other colourit. I am a media hermit...lol. Called having a life
Sep 24, 20
I use it when I'm working out. I use it when I'm relaxing. I walk with it. I catch public transport with it. It's as if we are married. Do you have a Spotify addiction too?
Carolyn C 364157
Amazing...who would ever have thought there was something so good, everything one could ever want in the way of music at you fingertips! Unbelievable. I use the Free version everyday
Jul 26, 20
Don't lie now, be honest. Have you? I ll go first. Yes, I confess I have sung into a hairbrush several times during my lifetime. Now your turn.
JAMIE D 156261
No, but i played air-guitar on a cricket bat while jumping on the bed (Until i broke a lamp!) KISS was to blame, not me! ;-)
Oct 18, 20
If you're a gamer, what's your preference? Do you prefer offline campaigns? Online multiplayer? Or local co-op? I personally prefer offline single player campaigns because I like to play at my own pace.
lordofthekitchen
life, the greatest game of all, put down the gadgets, go out side,, live you never know you might like it, there is a big beautiful world out there, go on enjoy the game
Nov 19, 20
I recently purchased a Rode USB mini Microphone and some headphones as I intend to create a podcast
Yiing S
Never. I am indifferent to the price of any headphones. As long as I can hear properly and most importantly, it is comfortable on my ears. Husband does all the purchasing in this area.
Aug 09, 20
Perhaps you ordered something healthy? Perhaps you ordered alcohol? Or perhaps you don't order via home delivery? I'll go first: My last home delivery cuisine was Vietnamese and it was delicious
Lisa D 88720
I got Noodle Box combination noodles with extra chicken and prawns. I don't usually get home delivery, but Uber gave me $30 to spend to try the Uber eats app.
Jul 07, 20
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